The Say Silence is Golden

But duct tape is silver. Normally whenever an issue arises, I will explain myself.  But it’s come to where that no matter how many times I explain myself, most people don’t listen.  So, pretty much, I’m just not going to bother with it. What brought this up?  Katsucon.  Be forewarned, this post may come off as passive/aggressive, only because I do not want to name names in this.  Long story short, two former friends tried to have me kicked out of the con.  But since each person had a different story, no blame was posted. For two weeks, I lamented over the fact of should I talk about it.  I decided not to.  Only a few people in my select circle know what happened.  I am going to leave it at that.  I just want these two individuals to leave me alone and to stop poking their noses around in my personal life.  If they want to know so damn badly, just ask me.  I’m not that hard to find. I’ll say this much tho… I’ve done some stupid shit in my life, but I’ve always owned up to it.  But I have never gotten a woman drunk just to

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To Understand Does Not Mean You Concede

Discussions, conversations, arguments, debates will mostly have two sides to it.  It’s not often that one side will agree with the other.  We all have our reasons for believing and/or standing behind a statement.  At one time, I would stand behind my point and not give up until that person would concede, because I would verbally berate my view is the correct one.  In my field of work, you really can’t do that.  You have to see what you’re looking at, be reasonable, understand the points and then decide if you agree or not.  Key word being understand.  I think that’s something a lot of people forgotten about.

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So Me and My Ex…

Only a few people know the story of the breakup between me and my ex-girlfriend Mimi.  Oddly enough, after the breakup, the story went on for months.  It was mostly me.  I was the one trying to stay friends and find out the truth about things.  But honestly I should have know when she got more tight-lipped and I had to drag the truth out of her.  For the longest, I decided to keep this under wraps due to privacy between us and everyone else involved.  But if seems that some people like to tell my business and that end results of this took a serious emotional strain on me to where I couldn’t take it anymore.   So I guess now that I’ve let all of this sink in, I can tell my side of things.

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It’s Later, Never Goodbye.

Thursday night, I get a text from my friend Claire.  She said that due to a life-changing event that we shouldn’t be friends anymore.  It’s far and few that I receive a message like that.  My heart was racing, I felt the blood drain from my face.  I was panicking, trying to figure out what I did that caused this to happen. But as it is in most cases, I wasn’t at fault.

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